how do they do it????

how do they do it??
having a very long relationship..
more than a year..
how could they cope??
like the first few months..
yeah they are great..
the honeymo0n phase..
everything seems great..
even their flaws..
you can see pass through it..
but when you've start fighting..
it won't stop..
and little by little you see all the flaws.
and the things that you hate about them..
that makes you think that why did you agree at first to be in the relationship with that someone..
that is usually what happens to me..
at first everything seems greats..
and when i've started to get board or someone pissed me off..
yeah the fights starts..
the hating starts..
the saying bad things about that person starts..
and the frustration starts..
depression..
yeah that to0..
relationship is a very hard thing.
trying to be understanding..
and wanting that other person to understand..
yeah that is hard..
it's hard...
usually people don't really know what you want in a relationship..
and what people want..
maybe you love them..
but they don't love you as much..
or they love you like crazy..
but you don't love them that much..
that is usually what happens in a relationship..
that's why things started to go wrong..
very2 wrong..
when one party doesn't care as much..
yeah it hurts the other party..
sometimes people don't care..
even they are so0 called you boyfriend or girlfriend...
i think to have a long lasting relationship..
you have to find someone that love you as much as you love them..
yeah i know..it's hard..
but it's not impossible right..
there must be that perfect someone for everyone..
someone that understands you..
that accepts you for who you are..
your flaws..
your craziness..
and in my case I'm a little bit of a perfectionist..
i like everything to be a little bit like perfect..
i don't want it to be all perfect..
but i'm just like that..
i like to do things by the book..
plan things before it happens..(even if it doesn't happens)
it is just me..
i like doing things and perfecting it..
making things perfect even if i know they aren't
that is just me..
aside of me..that people sometimes doesn't see..
if you see me co0king, doing a model for someone, baking, ironing and just about anything people would see it
but maybe sometimes people just overlooked about it..
i'm sorry that i'm a bit of a perfectionist..
and sometimes i make people feel uncomfortable about it..
but that is just me..
i want everyday to be like sunshine in a rainy day..
i don't mean it sometimes..
but that is really2 just me..
hope people know at least a bit about me..
well i'm not going to tell everything about me..
let everything else be a mystery to you guys for now..
i love being a realtionship..