i woke up at 8 caused my mum called..
after i was done talking to her..
i decided to watch tv..
for some reason i wanted to0 watch cube at ntv7
i always thought cube was a bit boring..
but today's topic was okay i guess..
i love the segment about rally racing..looks fun and fast( i love driving fast..hehe)
it seemed fun..now if i could be a race car driver..that would be so0 much fun(i can make money and do something i really like at the same time..lol)
if i could went to an audition to sejuta impian and won that..only god knows how happy it would be..
well enough with racing..
mainly i watch cube coz of its talk about cheating..
they said that there are 2 different ways of cheating..
emotionally cheating and physically cheating..
physically cheating is basically normal cheating (going out with some1 else and such which is done physically)
but emotionally cheating..every1 has their own opinion basically..
some say emotional cheating is when your partner is in love with some1 else even without physically cheating..
some say even having the thought of some1 else more than your partner is even can enclosed to emotional cheating..
well my opinion is that cheating is cheating..
either emotionally or physically..
it is still cheating..(well every1 has their own opinion right..well this is mine)i don't know if i'm the right person to talk about this but..
well i have been cheated..i have cheated.. and even been the third person( how many times??well let that be my secret..not a lot though..but I've been there.. I've experienced in every ways how a person could cheat and be cheated..so0 i think i have the right to say ae.. ;P )
being cheated..yeah totally not fun
cheating on some1..some 1 that I've cheated on was a dush..no wonder i cheated..i guess he had it coming since he was such an asshole..
being the third person in a relationship..yeah surely i'll tell you..not what anybody wants at all..(hey for my defense i didn't know i was the third wheel until she told me..after she broke up with him)
cheating..yeah..please take my advice on it..don't ever cheat..cause once your at the receiving end(being cheated) then you would know how it feels..
to me emotionally cheating and physically cheating is the same though..
still cheating..
it still hurts the other person's feeling..
i think cheating physically doesn't hurt as much as emotionally cheating..
emotionally cheating is what changes a person..
physical cheating is a one time thing..
you go out and watch a movie or what so0 ever and then when you go home its gone..
but emotionally cheating..every time constantly thinking and loving some1 else..
man that is harsh..
if your partner doesn't know..it doesn't bring so0 much harm nor hurt..
but if your partner knows..
that can do major damage to some1..( it makes your partner constantly think if you are thinking about some1 else all the time)
maybe that is why some people get so0 up tight about their relationship..
you partner making you..forcing you(even they doesn't do it intentionally)..you would still think about it..
is your partner thinking about you or some1 else..it makes you evaluate yourself on what you have done wrong..constantly thinking about that would make some1 goes crazy..
i think avoiding cheating is better..
why do people need to cheat??
i found it the hard way that cheating doesn't do any good to anybody..even your the one who's cheating..
karma will catch you eventually..what goes around come around rite..
if you don't love that some1 anymore just tell them..
don't cheat..
it is a less hurt full way..( and a safer way so0 that people don't hold any grudges on you)
if you love your partner but still cheat..i think theres something wrong with you..
and people who have been cheated..
well i think the best way to0 feel better is to let them go..
delete everything that you've got about them( phone number, address, pictures, anything that remotely relates to them..yeah get rid of it..the faster you get rid of it..the faster you'll forget)..and don't try to reach them..
and 1 day you will forget about them 1 thing at a time..
well it did for me hope it will help you to0..
and if you stuck being the third wheel..make them choose..
don't make it harder to you..
if they say they don't know who they wanna pick and you should give them time to think about..
i suggest that you run away from them as far as you could..
cause if your not the person that they wants to choose immediately..
then they are just playing with you..
once their done..
they'll toss you away..
i hope you guys find a way in resolving problem about cheating..
remember cheating is bad..
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