please girls be firm..don't be flimsy..
don't let him make your decision for you..
you have the right to speak up about your relationship with him..
guys take advantage when we don't put our guards up..
i know sometimes when we're in love we lower our guards down without even knowing or realizes it
that is why we need to make the guys know that we are who we are..
they have no rights to change you..
no rights to hurt or harm you in anyway
and if he does hurt you leave him (emotionally)
but if hurts you physically tell someone you can trust n of course leave him
i advise to all girls that don't give to much chances to these guys..
cause they will take you for granted..
they will think that if they did something wrong next time..
they can escape next time with another chance
(i've been through this so0 many times..so0 that is why i advise you not to make the same mistake that i've made..i gone through it the hard way and i don't want you to experience it to0.)
make guys understand that love and forgiveness is something that they have to earn..
so0 that they wont make the same mistake again..
so0 that they would cherish you more..
and think before they act..
but if the relationship is impossible to fixed..
then you should just leave them..
it is not worth it..
i know it is hard to leave someone that you love more than ever..
but it is for your own good..
don't be with a guy who doesn't appreciates you..
who doesn't care for you..
who doesn't love you as much as you loved him..
because the end result would be catastrophic if you don't leave him..
you will be the one that would get hurt..
leaving a guy that you love is tough..
i know..
but don't cry over it..
don't stuff your face with food or ice cream (which i usually do)
just go out..
hangout with your friends..
have a makeover (that would make him regret for ever hurting you)
have fun while you're still single..
meet someone new..that would surely help
and don't ever look back..
what is in the past..stays in the past..
don't dwell on the past..
that would just destroy you..(that i learnt from my bf)
in my own opinion love should be like a midsummer's evening..
something that is beautiful
make your feel warmth inside
it should be something that comes naturally
not forced..
and something that is so0 captivating that it literally takes your breath away
that is what i think love and being in a relationship is..
not being tortured by one another..
so0 to my besties that is having boy problems hope that this will help you..
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